I thought I could do everything by myself to care for my husband with Younger-Onset Alzheimer’s. I didn’t want to impose on people by asking for help. I’ve always been the person who supports others, not the recipient. When my husband had a significant medical event, I was very overwhelmed physically, emotionally, and financially. Family, friends, and co-workers jumped in to support us. I finally had to let go of the notion that I could take care of him myself, and learned how to ask for help. When I did, my burden was lessened. I find this quote by Cory Booker to be spot on: “Sometimes asking for help is the most meaningful example of self-reliance.”— from the poem “Sometimes” by U.S. Senator Cory Booker

Mary Swenson – Without Warning, Member